"Men are horrible". "Being single on Valentines Day is horrible". Here's how to make it better: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract/ ►►Subscribe here to learn more of my dating tips for women: http://bit.ly/2p50Jpw Find us on Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/sexyconfidence1 Find us on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/officialsexyconfidence/ Read more relationship advice articles on our blog: https://sexyconfidence.com/blog/ Learn how to attract "the one": https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract/ Yea. I get it. Having a holiday that's all about love, sweet love when you're far from being in it can be super irritating. It feels like the world has exploded with roses and heart-shaped balloons, and all you want to do is crawl under a rock. Stop feeling like you're the only one. In today's video, I talk about how you can be happy with your single life, on Valentine's Day and every day. Now, I know you're probably thinking to yourself, Adam, aren't you a relationship coach? Don't you help people find love? Why are you trying to convince me that I want to be single?? Here's a secret that I have found: the best way to find a great relationship is to actually be happy with your single life. It's true. I've heard this over, and over, and over again, especially with clients that join the Attract The One Academy, my 10-week program that helps women find love. I find at the end of the program, a lot of my clients say that the moment that they became happy with their single life was the very moment that they get snatched up by a great guy. It's funny, they're almost like, hey, I was actually starting to enjoy my single life and now I don't have to be single anymore! But it really is that moment when you finally start enjoying being on your own that you start to attract love. Your Coach, Adam P.S. Want to join the thousands of women who have graduated with honors from the Attract The One Academy? Sign up today and get 10 weeks of tried-and-true advice to help you find The One! Sign up for Attract The One Academy here: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract/ Whether you're sad because you're single on Valentine's Day or any other day of the year, it's important to acknowledge those feelings rather than bury them in a bucket of Ben & Jerry's. Realize that the state of being single is temporary. Enjoy this time for what it is: an amazing opportunity to get to know yourself without a partner. Here are a few reasons to celebrate being single on Valentine's Day Reason #1 Being Single on Valentine's Day Rocks: Being a Singleton is Exciting! Enjoy your single life! It's not permanent. I want you to acknowledge that being single can actually be one of the most exciting and fun times of your life. Being single doesn't mean being lonely...unless you make it that way. Don't underestimate how amazing it can be to be single. Enjoy it and be grateful for that time of your life, because if all goes well, as you follow my advice, you're not going to be single for very long. Reason #2 Being Single on Valentine's Day Rocks: Society Isn't the Boss of You No one but you has a say in your love life! Stop listening to societal expectations about how you need to be in a relationship. When your mother tells you that you need to find a husband right now, take it with a grain of salt. I'm here to tell you that there's nothing wrong with you. So hold out, enjoy your time right now, and don't let people in your life make you feel awful for being single. It's none of their business whether you're single or not! Reason #3 Being Single on Valentine's Day Rocks: It's a Great Day to Meet People Being single on Valentine's Day has its perks! Why? Because everyone who's out at a party or at a bar on Valentine's Day is single. Reason #4 Being Single on Valentine's Day Rocks: It's an Excuse to Pamper Yo'Self Take Valentine's Day as the opportunity to pamper yourself. - Book an all-day spa treatment, complete with massage and mani/pedi - Treat yourself to some retail therapy - Have dinner and drinks with your single ladies - Go to a singles mixer - Book a hotel just for you (or with girlfriends) and have a mini vacation It's such a good way to de-stress, relax, and detox any time, but Valentine's Day is a great excuse to take care of you. So there you have it. Maybe I showed you a little of why being single on Valentine's Day ain't so hard after all. It's all about your mindset. I'm here to tell you that you can be happy the way you are, right now. How do you plan to celebrate being single on Valentine's Day this year? I'd love to hear from you in the comments right there below. Even if you're digging your single lady status, check out my Attract The One Academy. Now is the perfect to learn the skills of being confident and feeling great so that when you do meet the right guy, you're ready for him. Sign up for Attract The One Academy here: https://secret.sexyconfidence.com/attract/