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When choosing lingerie, remember it’s for her, not you. Follow these tips to find sexy underthings she’ll actually like—and wear.
Step 1: Talk to her
There’s nothing wrong with asking her what kind of lingerie she prefers. The more input she has in your selection, the more likely it is that she’ll put it on. Also, this way you'll be sure of her size.
Tip
If you want to keep it a surprise, here’s a size cheat sheet. Think of her breasts in terms of fruit: A lemon is an A cup, an orange is a B, grapefruit is a C, and a melon is a D. In panties, an extra-small corresponds to a dress size of 2 to 4; a small is a size 6; medium is a size 8; large is a size 10; and extra-large is a size 12 or above.
Step 2: Look at color, style, and fabric
Take your research findings to the store, and look for the colors, styles, and fabrics she gravitates toward.
Tip
Black is the color of lingerie women most like to receive from a romantic partner, according to surveys.
Step 3: Ask for help from saleswomen
Enlist the aid of a saleswoman. She can show you what styles are popular and explain some lingerie basics.
Tip
Key terms in the lingerie universe include: brief, hipster, boy short, thong, plunge, balconette, demi, push-up, underwire, and soft-cup.
Step 4: Don’t be cheap
Buy the best lingerie you can afford; research shows that lingerie is the number-one item that women don’t like to scrimp on.
Step 5: Buy matching sets
Buy her a matching set, or sets, rather than random pieces.
Step 6: Consider alternatives
There’s a lot more to lingerie than bras and panties. Consider a teddy, a silky chemise, a camisole, or a 'bralet,' which is a cross between a bra and a camisole. Or a soft, sexy tank top that she’ll look forward to wearing to bed.
Step 7: Don’t forget presentation
Have the gift wrapped exquisitely, even if you have to pay a store clerk to do it.
Step 8: Be encouraging
Tell her how sexy she'll look in her new lingerie. Flattery will get you everywhere!
Did You Know?
Americans spend $10 billion per year on intimate apparel.