He ghosted me! Why men ghost women - 5 reasons

For more about how to keep him from ghosting you - go here: https://www.datingadviceguru.com/forever He ghosted me! Why men ghost women - 5 reasons If I had a dime for every time a client told me "He ghosted me!" - and then asked "Why did he ghost me??" Yeah, I'd be pretty awesomely rich. Let's take a look at the definition of ghosting: Ghosting is breaking off a relationship (often an intimate relationship) by ending all communication with a person without any apparent warning or justification. AND ignoring the former partner's attempts to reach out or communicate. Which means that it's a harsh ending to something as lovely as a relationship. No matter how short lived the relationship was. The fact is that a guy can seem totally obsessed with you, and then - seemingly out of nowhere - he disappears and stops responding to texts or calls. This disappearing act is "ghosting." No, it's not fun to experience. Especially because it feels like the rug just got pulled out from under you. And then you're left wondering: "He Ghosted Me... Why did he disappear? Why did he just run away?" It's especially confusing because he seemed to swing from really into you to the other extreme of ghosting you like this. Were his feelings not real? I know he ghosted me - Was it something I said or did? From my own experience - being a guy who dated women - I tried to never leave any woman saying "He ghosted me." And even when it happened, it was mostly a mutual ghosting. You know, one of those dates where we both didn't seem too into each other. And a text seemed a little unnecessary. I've also had PLENTY of times where she ghosted me. We'll come back to that again in a bit. I'll also spare you the stories of college guys or anyone under the age of "responsible." We all know that the younger we are, the more likely we are to ghost someone in a discomfort around awkward social situations. But before we jump into the answer to 'Can you tell me why he ghosted me?' - I'd like to take a second to look at what really comes up when you feel a guy pulling away from you in this way. When you feel the "ghosting" happen, do you feel: • Scared? Like the rug is pulled out from under you? • Abandoned? Like someone just left you - even though you know he was never really THERE to begin with? • Rejected? Like he just screamed NO! at you and ran away? Even though he never knew anything about you to really "reject"? • Clinging? Like you don't want to let go of the feeling of the connection you had, and you're not quite sure if it will come back to you? These are just some of the feelings that come up in a person when they feel the sting of being ghosted appear. It's only natural. He Ghosted Me! Reason #1: He liked you. This one is going to seem like a contradiction, but it can be eerily true. Yeah, he maybe actually really LIKED you. Sometimes a guy really likes you, but just doesn't know how to move it forward. This is often where the pain of him ghosting you overrides your compassion for where he is in life. It doesn't mean there was anything wrong with him or you. But that feeling of his pulling away activates all kinds of crazy life-stuff and childhood-stuff and mom-stuff... You know. STUFF. But let's get back to the good news - He liked you! Yes, it's totally possible - and likely - that he really liked the YOU that he saw. And now he's not sure if he either deserves it, or if he knows what to do with it. He had his own reasons why he ghosted you. Because HE might have a lot of life stuff, childhood stuff, dad stuff... you-name-it stuff. So take a little bit of happiness in that you were likable, and for whatever reason (does it really matter?) he just couldn't be there for you right now. Who knows, maybe he'll be back around later. Or maybe you enabled him in some way so that when another woman comes along, he can say YES to her - and NOT ghost her. And before you feel jealous at the thought of some other woman getting him instead of you, consider this: Some other woman might get ghosted out there so that you get HIM. Why did he ghost you? Reason #2: Yeah, Super-freak... Some guys do freak out a bit when they run into their own feelings and attraction for a woman. Guys don't spend a lot of their time in an emotional zone. We're very much thinkers and do-ers. We don't naturally embrace the emotional side of life. A man's drive to connect with his energy and his work and his action is his - If you want to learn the rest - watch the video! ============================================ ** SUBSCRIBE for More Videos: http://www.youtube.com/subscription_center?add_user=connectwithhim =========================================== Carlos Cavallo Dating Advice Guru http://www.datingadviceguru.com Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/carlosdatingguru =========================================== He ghosted me! Why men ghost women https://youtu.be/INrAqWLkKOM