7 Body Language Signs Men Use To Show Love
If there's one way to read a person, it's through their body language. What body language shows us is what a person is really thinking and feeling on the inside, despite what their words say.
If you want to know if a man is falling for you, or if he's really in love with you at all, the shortcut to his truth is through reading his signals. Body language is a way for the secret thoughts and feelings he has to "leak" out into the real world.
I mean, let's face it - guys don't always tell you what's on their minds - or in their hearts.
Do you remember picking flower petals as a little girl and reciting: "He loves me... he loves me not..." ?
As a girl, that was fun to play at - the hoping and the promise of some boy's interest in you. In fact, it was almost more fun than KNOWING if he was interested if you're truthful about it.
Once you KNOW, the mystery is gone.
Well, I'm assuming you want a better method for figuring out what he wants in your relationship.
First of all, I want to get rid of a few myths right now:
BODY LANGUAGE MYTH 1: Look at his pupils...
I used to actually tell guys to watch for this one, too. But after many years of using this as a signal - and having it be wrong - I decided that this advice is largely a myth.
Yes, you can sometimes see a person's eyes dilated, and it is an involuntary response. But the reality is that there are too many other things that can affect it. And unless you're a doctor with a penlight ready to go, you're not going to see this signal easily.
My advice: Ignore the pupils - watch the eyes instead. I'll talk more on this in a second.
BODY LANGUAGE MYTH 2: Which way is he facing...
Another popular body language signal for a guy being in love is that he's going to face you directly - or his hips will align to face you... or his toes... or something along those lines.
Well, yes, it's true that if he's facing you more directly, he's giving you the majority of his attention. But it's not guaranteed that he's in love with you.
You need more to go on than just his body direction.
BODY LANGUAGE MYTH 3: One signal will tell you everything...
There's a lot of belief that you can take any ONE body language signal and it will reveal his true feelings for you. Whether he loves you or not.
This is an over-simplification. You can't look for just one signal to tell you if he's into you or not. You need to take in the big picture.
Studies have shown that women typically show about 52 different attraction body language signals - where men only show about 10.
This means you have to be sharp and look for the ones that matter.
So let's jump into the real body language signs men use to show their love...
BODY LANGUAGE LOVE SIGN #1: He goes little-boy awkward...
If you've ever seen a guy act embarrassed, you probably know how adorable it is. He starts to act like he's a 6 year old again at the playground. When you pick up on this little-boy energy, you'll know he's finding feelings for you that he won't have for just any woman.
He may get goofy, or he might even get clumsy and drop things.
He might get embarrassed easily when you're around.
It's this kind of sincere display that's a great indicator of a man's affection.
BODY LANGUAGE LOVE SIGN #2: He's a mirror...
Mirroring is when we adopt the body language of the person we're with.
- If they lean on the bar, we lean on the bar...
- If we start playing with our drink, they start playing with their drink...
- If they play with their clothes, we play with ours...
And so on. It's the subconscious way we try to attune to another person.
So when he starts to mirror your posture, match your breathing and your speech patterns, then you know he's showing his love.
BODY LANGUAGE LOVE SIGN #3: He steals your words...
Not only will a guy match your tonality, he'll also start using the exact same words or phrases you're using.
It's very common to hear a guy start to talk like you as a way of syncing himself to you. It sends the message "We're alike, you and I..."
Sometimes this is obvious, sometimes not. But listen for the words he ...
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7 Body Language signs men use to show love
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