3 Powerful Secrets To Make Any Guy Miss You - How To Make Him Miss You

REGISTER FOR THE FREE WEBINAR: https://claytonolsoncoaching.com/3-Keys-Webinar-Make-Him-Miss-You Join The New Facebook Community to get your questions answered: https://www.facebook.com/groups/2110297722521237/ Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching? Click here to schedule: https://claytonolsoncoaching.com/1-hour-relationship-coaching-session Subscribe to Jack's Channel Here: http://bit.ly/jackbutlersubscribe ↓↓↓ READ MORE ↓↓↓ This video is all about how to make him miss you. How to make any guy miss you. This equates to: “How do I become a priority in his life? How do I get him to spend more time and put more attention on me in the relationship?” You probably can't determine exactly how much of a priority any guy makes you but what you can do is everything that's on your side of the fence that maximizes that opportunity This is what this video is going to teach you today. In here, Jack and Clayton are going to give you three tips – three secrets or three ways of looking at this question that will help position you more as a high-value woman in his life, and get to be a priority and have the attention that you deserve. Secret #1: Be His Sanctuary: Be his soft, safe place for him to rest his head [00:57] When you think about it probably the men that you're attracted to probably care about their careers: they work hard, they're building a business, they're professional and they've already got a lot of problems in their life, they've already got a lot of stress that will just come from the work that they do in the world. One of the things that can really entrance a man and can have him want you is that you help provide a context and nest where he can forget the worries of the world and importantly that you're not adding another problem to his plate. You’re the place where he thinks about you, he thinks about fun, he thinks about great, he thinks about lightness, he thinks about relaxation, he thinks about connection. And not like, “another problem I have to handle.” There's a lot of challenges that men silently suffer from and they don't necessarily articulate to women because they're ashamed of it. KEY NOTE: If you position yourself more as a sanctuary, with softness, with levity, with lightness, then all the pressure in his life ends up pushing him into you, naturally. You’re the place where he begins to recharge and feel whole again. Secret #2: Focus on The Connection Rather Than the Commitment [03:54] What we're teaching you is how to strengthen the connection that you do have with him so when he's not with you there is the sense of longing that is naturally there. Because what he gets to experience with you is something where he gets to feel at ease, relaxed and allow his vulnerable parts out. KEY POINT: The most important asset that you will create with any man in any relationship is not the relationship itself, it's not the agree, it's not the commitment, it's the CONNECTION and the intimacy that the two of you share – which has very little to do with in trying to make him commit, trying to get him to agree to something that his heart is not fully in. Secret #3: Give Him Your Trust [07:33] Point three is all about trust and it's all about you're trusting him. And you're letting him know that you trust him. Trust is a huge area of issue for a lot of women in relationship. This isn't about you artificially generating a sense of trust that you don't have but it's about you not bringing in your previous relationships and your history into this relationship. We call this COMPLETING YOUR PAST and that means you're able to see clearly the man that's in front of you, not all the other men that you feel have hurt you or abandoned you or whatever has happened, or your story is about what has happened. KEY POINT: When you can trust him, you're giving him the opportunity to be seen clearly by you. When you're looking at him through the lens of your own wounding, the experience that he has is one of being constricted when he's with you because he's being seen as a certain way in which he suddenly has to be defensive or to try to defend himself against, so you don't see him that way and that's exhausting for a guy. Guys know at a deep gut level that having a woman that trusts them in their life will ultimately allow them to do more in life and be more and experience more meaning in their life. Men want meaning in their life. You are an integral piece in that. Need Immediate 1-on-1 Custom-Tailored Coaching? Click here to schedule: https://claytonolsoncoaching.com/1-hour-relationship-coaching-session Subscribe: https://www.youtube.com/c/claytonolsoncoaching CONNECT WITH ME ➜ FACEBOOK: https://www.facebook.com/ClaytonOlson101/ ➜ INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/claytonolsoncoaching/ VISIT THE WEBSITE: ➜ http://claytonolsoncoaching.com/ SEND ME AN EMAIL: ➜ [email protected] Share this video: ➜ https://youtu.be/Bq5UuooPPns